I haven't ever grappled with torture and anguish caused by questioning the love between my parents and me. The love between my us is unconditional, of that I am sure. Of course, there was a talk about me being a boy that liked boys. It was awkward in the way that we all recoil from... Continue Reading →
How to make sure that your hard work becomes your success!
This article originally started as a 'why your hard work is not turning into success', article. While I was writing, I realised that I was having trouble articulating myself and then it dawned on me that I had based the whole idea based on negativity, so, I switched it up. The words started to flow... Continue Reading →
Don’t Even Think About Paying For Coaching Until You Read Every Word of This
I am a self-development enthusiast, and I am not ashamed to admit it. I search out learning experiences like a pig hunting for truffles; usually, this is a trait that I am grateful for, and these days with everyone seeming to be becoming a coach, there's a lot of noise to lose one's voice in.... Continue Reading →
The importance of the Black Lives Matter Conversation
I do see skin colour. There, I said it. Observing the might of this movement gestate and develop into the dominant force that it is has been an incredible learning experience and, until late last week, I kept my observations intentionally silent. My silence was not demonstrative of a lack of response and certainly not... Continue Reading →
Free yourself from the torment of comparison!
Comparison between people, objects, value and status is a socially accepted form of violence, which is what makes seeking justice for ourselves such a painful, and seemingly unattainable task. This behaviour is insidious and is drilled into us from such an early age right from an adult comparing the behaviour of one child to another... Continue Reading →
Trusting the Universe ISN’T becoming a Bystander.
I like to go down google rabbit holes every now and again and the last time I ventured into one was in exploration of a phenomenon that has fascinated me for as long as I can remember, Enlightenment. Not the Age of Enlightenment but the concept that is sometimes called The Dark Night of the... Continue Reading →
Auditing social media to find peace and power!
I took a hiatus from all Social Media at the end of 2019. Desperately disenchanted with my career, insecure about what I had to offer and afraid for my future; I experienced an existential crisis. I knew I had to do a Six Thinking Hats recalibration of my life, which ultimately empowered me to end... Continue Reading →
How to Develop a Growth Mindset!
Growth Mindset is a thought theory developed by Dr Carol Dweck, it has been around for so long, as is so well received that it seems to have suffered the curse of all great thinking - adopted by the mainstream, diluted over time, and inevitably Growth Mindset has become little more than white noise in... Continue Reading →
Why there will always be more power in giving!
The Go-Giver is a business book written by Bob Burg and John D. Mann. This book was published back in 2007 when I was a full-time recruiter. Working in an industry that is so focussed on getting, I was used to the mindset of always be closing and the deal, at any cost but this book changed my... Continue Reading →